Irina Komarova

Psychologist for Adults

Service

Psychological help with relationships

Relationships often hurt not because you are “unlucky with people”, but because two ways of protecting the self meet in a pair.

What is it?
Relationship difficulty is a repeating cycle of fighting, distance, resentment, or fusion, where it is hard to be yourself and together at once.

Signs

  • The same fights on repeat
  • Fear of closeness or abandonment
  • Silence instead of talking
  • Jealousy, control, checking
  • Feeling unheard

Causes

  • Early attachment patterns
  • Unspoken expectations
  • Anxiety and control
  • Fatigue and lack of support
  • Crises (move, children, war)

How therapy can help

We look not at “who is to blame”, but at how you meet. A language of wants and limits appears, with less defence and more live contact.

Therapy methods

  • Individual Gestalt therapy
  • Couples therapy, 80 minutes
  • Working the conflict cycle
  • Contact with feeling instead of blame

Consultation format

Individual 60 min / 1900 UAH or couples 80 min / 3300 UAH. Online.

Pricing

Individual session — 60 minutes / 1900 UAH. Couples session — 80 minutes / 3300 UAH. Online.

Frequently asked questions

Can I come without a partner?

Yes. Individual work on relationships often changes the pair, because your part of the cycle changes.

Is couples therapy for fixing my partner?

No. It is a space for two. If someone only wants to prove the other guilty, we pause and look for another request.

We are close to breaking up. Is it too late?

Not necessarily. Sometimes therapy helps you part with dignity. Sometimes it shows what is still alive between you.

How long is a couples session?

80 minutes. That is usually enough to hear both people without cutting the process in half.

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This text is educational and does not replace a psychiatrist or emergency care.